How to Talk to a Guy if You Are Extremely Shy

If you are shy this is the article for you.


  1. First just try to wave at him, at the very least smile.
  2. After a couple days of shyness try to gather up more courage, say "Hi -insert name here-" every day, this way he knows you know he exists.
  3. Do this for a week or two. (if you skip a couple of days, don't worry he will still remember you.)
  4. Try to find out what he likes. For example, working out; Then ask him where he works out. This tip may take a lot of days to accomplish depending on how shy you are.
  5. Then after that ask him if you can work out with him some time (or do that special activity he loves to do.)
  6. After this talking to him should be a breeze, if not just turn back and try again.


  • Blushing is not always a bad thing, when you do don't hide your face. It tells every one that you are insecure about yourself and most guys don't like that in a girl.
  • You don't have to ask him out at a certain time or before "the timeline."
  • Remember to smile. This is one of the most important rules.


  • Guys have feelings just like you. They just don't show because of their ego. (the way you perceive him. if you think you have hurt his feelings say "Did i hurt your feelings? I'm sorry."
  • If he is having a bad day DON'T TALK ABOUT IT!!!
  • remember there will be other guys, no matter what you are beautiful on the inside and that's all that matters

Things You'll Need

  • If you wear baggy clothes, get some tighter ones.
  • Get some hair ties, guys love to see your face.
  • Get a pedicure or a manicure, it will boost your confidence.